Wow! I am soooo blessed to have amazing friends in my life.
A fellow cyster of mine has been having friend problems...pretty much the people that she was considering to be her friends are not continuing to be her friends b.c she is getting sick and having to be in the hospital so she is unable to hang out.
I absolutely hate people that do that. They are obviously people that arent worth anything and should be shot.
ok maybe not that extreme but it pisses me off.
one of the excuses kody used to end our relationship was that he couldnt be in the navy and have a wife that has cf. coward.
they are all cowards.
having cf does not mean that we are any less capable of having friends, or not wanting friends.
we want friends
we want people that are going to hang out with us when we are sick or not...when we feel great...or when we feel bad. We want friends that are going to look past the cf and see us for who we are!
i do not understand what is so hard about that.
cf is not who we are.
I am so blessed to have such amazing friends.
first of all...is my best friend. We have been friends since high school but got super close after. And she knows everything about me...its hard now since she now lives FAR AWAY ... but i still love her and cant wait till im not broke and can go visit her. but every time i have a problem with cf or am not feel well...she does everything she can to understand...and i know its not always easy for her.
and then there are my new friends.
I started hanging out with these people last september, so yeah a bit of time but not really that long. they know that i have cf but they only know what ive told them or if they ask any questions. but man...are they awesome. last night i was not feeling good , having trouble breathing, and they just accepted that and told me that if i needed anything to not hesitate to call.
these people have had the easiest lives possible...and they are still ok with hanging out with diseased and damaged me. how could i have gotten so lucky?!?!
some people are just ignorant and stupid.
and i hate that my friend is having to go through this. We all need friends. I just wish there was a way that I could help her out besides talking over the internet.
"Today you are You, that is truer than true. There is no one alive who is Youer than You" ~ Dr. Seuss.
what an asshole.
ReplyDeleteit's like me with the age thing. did he not know how old i was up front?
did he now know you had cf in the beginning?
it's not like we hid it from him.
-okay, rant over(:
yeah he definitely new...our first date was pretty much about cf. like after the date part he was interveiwing me for one of his classes and i broke out in hives. i was having an allergic reaction to one of th emeds i was on (i had just gotten out of the hospital like...a month before...had been on iv antibiotics for about 6 weeks) and then we spent the next two months of our relationship in the hospital...our first kiss was in the hospital...yeah...he knew. and just like he knew about your age...and my age. he is dumb
ReplyDeleteI love you Amaraaaa. :) I honestly forget you have cf sometimes...haha, which is bad, but kind of good, because I look past it. ;) But as for your friend, people are rude. She'll find some lifelong friends soon I'm sure, and they'll be able to accept her and help her as much as I'm sure you do.
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